Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Fall time fun

So we have had some fun the last few weeks to blog about and since Charie has "tagged" me I will do the honors. Halloween was a big hit in our house and we also had a blast picking apples at my uncle's cabin in Pine Valley. We even made real apple sauce and dried apples with the pickings. Oh and we moved too. That was fun...funish anyway.


So we celebrated Halloween at my mom's this year and it was really fun to be in a neighborhood where it was safe to go trick or treating. It was also really fun to go as a family since we didn't have our own door to man. Cami dressed as a witch and Taryn was a doggie, which if you know her fits her very well lately. (note the plate licking and constant tongue hanging out) Anyway the girls totally ran from house to house and the candy has lasted way too long-except the chocolate candy which for some reason (Brent will tell you I am the reason) was gone really quick!





Carving the pumpkin


Cami the witch with spiders in her hair

Taryn the puppy dog - watch out, she does lick

Taryn marking her territory by the tree in the front yard

Two girls racing for the treats

Taryn's puppy dog lick the plate clean

The weekend before we moved we decided to stock up on the fun since we knew we'd be missing it for a while. We drove to pine valley and picked apples all morning. The girls got really into it for a little while and then wandered around and watch the resident deer jumping the fences. We had a picnic lunch then discovered a swing set and trampoline in the back yard. The girls of course went crazy and we loved every minute of it. It was nice to spend a day not thinking about the accident/insurance crap or moving/packing crap.


It's raining apples

WoW! Apple fun for all ages

Falling leaves and crazy, happy girls

Cami in love with the trampoline

Taryn in the sunshine


Cami's perfect 10 landing

Taryn giddy with glee


Super dog is a new discovery and a favorite

Every time you ask Taryn to smile she squenches her eyes closed as tight as she can. Cami is such a good kid and goes with the flow.

Cami on a tree swing in the sunshine

So on to the move....Well after some serious persuasion Brent agreed to hire movers instead of U-hauling it. I think his sore back from the accident and memories from the last move helped convince him. After some initial quotes we went with the two guys and a truck company. The were really cheap and really fast and really good (hence the plug). They packed one day then loaded and unloaded the next and that was that. Talk about easy. The Thompson's helped with the unpacking a ton. It has been different to move into a place where family lives. The move was by far so much easier than it otherwise could have been. We really appreciated all the help.


While we were sad to say good-bye to some great friends we are excited that Brent LOVES LOVES LOVES his job. He has kept longer working hours but he is always so up beat and excited that it is a great improvement. He definitely feels the passion for his company and his job which has been lacking for a while now. Everyday he wakes up he is excited because he "gets to go to work." He has been working for a big deadline in December so we don't plan on seeing too much of him in the next few weeks.



Taryn has been learning new tricks lately and finally has had a serious language explosion. She surprised me the other day when I said which one do you want and instead of pointing or grabbing she said "The purple one" very matter of factly. Purple was one of the choices and later in the day she wanted something "yellow". So I guess she is learning colors despite me being sidetracked and forgetting to teach her. She busts out with sentences often which is a relief since I was starting to wonder if she was ever going to use words. She loves wearing Dora panties so she will pee in the potty if I promise to let her wear them. I'm not trying to potty train her-just to entice her a little at a time. She can read to herself for hours and she does it out loud which is pretty funny to hear. She also is learning how to sing-at least she is learning the tunes...She does the ABC's and twinkle little star but she doesn't really know the words-just belts out the tune to BA BA BA BA BA BA BA....


Taryn walking on a block wall-very coordinated but don't even think about getting in her way or you will hear about it.


Taryn putting it all out there playing goalie on the floor of grandma's nursing home.

Cami desperately misses preschool and her friends but hopefully I'll have her busy again soon. Secretly I am having fun having her around everyday. She is getting a little less shy. In story time at the library she goes and sits by other kids now and not on my lap. She is also doing better with sleeping finally (she had a rough time after the accident since she was asleep when we were hit). Her passion right now is doing crafts-markers, glue, scissors, ribbon all put together for some serious master pieces. She also is loving playing soccer in the backyard on the grass. Just today she wanted to be the coach and tell Taryn how to score. She is very into fairy tales and dressing up. Usually she mixes the two. It's really fun to watch. In fact it has been really fun to be a mom lately and watch how much they learn and wonder where exactly they learn it....


Cami dressing up as Uniqua thanks to the Fergusons-apparently Uniqua is into jumping in the love sac.

Cami ready for church and posing for Brent who is experimenting with the new camera. She is such a good girl!

So on to the tag game for Charie :)

The rules when you are tagged:
A. The rules of the game are posted at the beginning.
B. Each player lists 6 facts/habits about themselves.
C. At the end of the post, the player then tags 6 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know that they have been tagged and asking them to read your blog.


So Six Amy Habits/facts...

1. 8'o'clock is all for me...I love love love my girls but bedtime is strictly 8 o'clock. At times I kid myself with the "kids need a schedule." This maybe true but more than them, I need a schedule.

2. I have a tendency to leave the house wide open. I am not just talking about unlocked. I am talking about leaving the door open a foot or two. Usually this is the garage door as I am trying not to be late and I just bolt to the car. I do usually shut the actual rolling garage door-just not the one into the house. Funny how high an air conditioning bill can be when you try to cool a garage in Las Vegas during the summer....

3. Lately I have been leaving Taryn's light on at night...Actually only twice but it has been really funny to see the light shining out from under her door then realizing the poor girl was probably really confused and had to pull her blanket over her head to fall asleep. BAD MOMMY!

4. I think the pregnant body is the most beautiful thing in the world-no not an announcement. I just really think that the big belly is so divine and perfect. I love seeing big old uncomfortable pregnant ladies. I have been known to try to look big and pregnant when I am not quite big yet just for the thrill of having a beautiful belly. I just think there is serious love and hope in a big old gut. Crazy I know, but very true. I love a nice round belly.

5. I cannot open the blinds unless the bed is made and I cannot "start the day" without the blinds open. I get up and the make all the beds and open all the blinds then I can shower and get kids dressed etc... Blinds are my jump start to each day...But beds MUST be made...My OCD way to start every day. Beds, Blinds, then wake up.

6. I hate hate hate ear wax. If I see it I have to clean it out. The girls know my ear irrigating and cleaning tools very well and Brent is patient enough to be acquainted too. He even bought me a nicer digger outer tool last year for Christmas (though this may have been self preservation on his part since the new one has a safety to keep me from digging too deep). There is something wholely satisfying about getting out huge chunkies and being able to hear/be heard better. Try it and I promise great reward....

So I tag...

Jess, Megan, Christine, Hans, Alisa, and Rebekah

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Here we go again......

The time has come again for us to move.

I just accepted a job with a small start up company in St. George, Utah. The company has been around for 3 years and is working on developing new methods for DNA testing. I am really excited to get back to technology and product oriented work. I am also excited to see what it takes to put a company together and get it going. While we weren't exactly looking to live in St George the job opportunity was definitely not one to pass up so we are excited.

Everyone is excited about this move. Here are some of the things we are looking forward to.

Girls - They really want us to find a house with grass in the yard (it is hard to play soccer on rocks) and a neighborhood pool. They are also looking forward to being near cousins.

Amy - She is excited to be near family so we can participate more and help out too. She too is hoping for a few more amenities in our next house/ neighborhood or at least neighbors who don't appear to be drug dealers. :) (She will miss several good ones too though) Our current house just doesn't feel like home. Even thought she won't admit it, I think she is excited to be closer to scrap booking stores - make that any stores other than Smiths.

Brent - I am looking forward to my change in job and neighborhood. I am also really looking forward to a very small commute. Perhaps I will even make it home for lunch once in a while. I also find St. George more beautiful than Las Vegas (it has greenery-at least more than LV) which means better hiking.

We are going to move in with Amy's mom for a couple of weeks as we look for a home to rent. My last day of work here in Vegas is Oct. 19th, oddly enough 2 months after our accident. Once again we are reminded how quickly life can change and how the Lord does answer our prayers. We are all feeling better slowly but surely. The physical therapy has been great for Amy and me. Cami is still working things out in her head but she is having fewer nightmares which we are all thankful for.-Next step is to get her to sleep without every light on in the house...

Once we settle down, we will pass along address and phone information. We can always be reached at our email addresses and my phone will stay the same for a while.

Thursday, August 23, 2007

I Know that Heavenly Father Watches Over Us

I bear witness that Heavenly Father watches over us. Our family was involved in a serious car accident on the way home. The Lord blessed us with a miracle as each of us was able to walk away from the accident.

We were returning home from our vacation on I-15. It had been hazy all day due to dust from a fire several months ago. Several miles south of Fillmore, we were traveling when visibility suddenly became almost zero due to the dust storm. It was as if we had gone into a blizzard or bank of fog.

I became very nervous very quickly and immediately began to slow down. All of a sudden we could see some taillights in front of us and we knew something was not right because they were too close together and they were not in lanes.

I had a distinct impression that I needed to pull off of the road and stop. I reacted immediately and got out of the left lane and on to the shoulder and came to a stop or near stop. I had just relaxed because I knew we weren't going to run into anyone when we got hit from behind.

I can't even begin to describe the feeling and the sound. When we finally settled, I looked at Amy and she was bleeding from a cut in her head. I then turned and looked at the girls who were screaming. This was the happiest and saddest thing I have ever seen. I didn't want them to go through this but I was glad they were not unconscious or worse.

After a couple of minutes, Amy and I got our bearings and we got the kids out of their seats. I had to shove my door open and we were able to get out of the truck. We borrowed a phone and called Amy's mom and then kind of walked around not knowing what to do.

There were people running around everywhere and lots of smashed cars. We finally decided to go back to the truck due to the dust and wind. As we were trying to get back in, God sent someone to assist us. A man said that we could get in his car.

We took the girls down to his car (they were almost in the accident) and his wife and daughter helped Amy with the girls and got them out of the wind. He then helped me get together some of our stuff and worked to get the EMTs to check out Amy.

When the EMTs did come, they decided to take her to the hospital by ambulance due to her back and neck. The wonderful family watched the girls while I finished working with the police to get permission to leave.

The family then drove the girls and I to the hospital where we were all checked out. Amy was hurt the worse. X-rays showed no breaks but she did have to get stitches on her forehead. I had a sore neck, a sore head, and a sore waist. Miraculously, the girls only had a few marks from their carseats.

Once we had checked out of the hospital, the wonderful family took us to their nearby home while we waited for Amy's mom and sister to come and take us back to St. George.

We have been in St. George since recovering. Amy and I have gotten sorer as the days have passed which is normal. Amy's mom and Mary Esther's family have done a great job taking care of the girls and helping us. We have also realized how blessed we are to have so many friends and family offer us assistance.

Since the accident, we have tried to piece together what happened. After discussions with the troopers, this is what we know.

The dust storm caused an initial accident in which there was a least 1 fatality. This is the accident we saw when came upon it. We were very lucky that we got off the road because a semi truck was behind us doing 50 - 60 and hit 3 different cars. I believe there was a fatality in one of the first two cars struck.

The second car struck was our truck. They estimated we were hit by a fully loaded semi doing 40 - 50 mph. The impact crumpled the back bed of the truck and almost instantly accelerated us to his speed. It also began spinning us. We spun around and hit the trailer of the truck with our front right side.

During the collision, I was thrust backwards in the seat bending it. I was then catapulted forward and hit the steering wheel with the right side of my head. This explained the half circle bruising from above my right eye and around to my right ear. I was also shoved into the seat belt on my left side which explains the major bruising on my left side.

Amy was less fortunate. While she had her seat belt on, we are not sure if it came undone, stretched, or if she came out of it. While she doesn't remember taking it off, we were all a little dazed. Regardless, she flew into the dash and hit her head on the window. She felt like she was spinning and bouncing around and couldn't stop. She had major muscle strains in her lower back and bruising all over her head, shoulders and arms. She also received a cut on her head.

We were very blessed. If I had not gotten over, we would have been shoved into other cars ahead of us. If I had stopped just a little sooner, we would have been hit from the side and the impact would have killed one or all of us for sure.

The Lord watched over us and prompted me with the reactions needed to save our lives. Of this I testify.



This is the final resting spot of the truck. You can see the trailer of the truck that hit us 2 feet behind us. We are blessed that it didn't roll on top of us as it was carrying giant rolls of paper. As you can see, we ended up in the median off the road. This is because I had pulled off the road and we were thrown clear of the other vehicles. It saved our lives.

Here are more pictures taken 2 days after the accident. You can see that the back of the truck saved our lives. It did exactly what is was suppose to do, crumple in a manner to absorb energy and not penetrate the cab of the truck. If we had been in any other type of vehicle, I am not sure the girls would have survived.



View of the back. You can see how the bed folded up on itself.


The damage in the front is due to us spinning around and smacking the trailer. The airbags did not go off since it was not a true front impact. If we had been smashed into other cars, there would have been more fatalities and more serious injuries.


Another view of the back.

Shows some of the damage and chaos in the back seat. The DVD player was destroyed. We are thankful that it didn't seriously hurt anyone in the vehicle. It was even strapped down.


If you look close, you can see where Amy hit the windshield (center of the picture)


The back seat was broken and the bed started to penetrate the cab. The car seats really saved the girls.


You can see where I hit the steering wheel and bent it. I honestly don't even remember it. It happened too quickly.



You can see how I bent the seat during the initial impact. We were hit on the back right which shoved me into back into the right side of the seat twisting it. We are very thankful we had full headrests set to the correct height. It minimized our whip lash.

Below are pictures of other vehicles in the accident. In all, there were 10 cars involved and 4 semis. As I have said, it is a miracle we survived.

This picture doesn't do justice for the lack of visibility right before the accident. Even thought it was 3:30 in the afternoon, I couldn't see more than 15 - 20 feet.




They had to cut the driver out of this car. We would have been directly behind him if we had not moved over. We would have been crushed into him killing him and us.

I need a vacation from our vacation

We had a wonderful time with the Weight family in August. The only problem is we need a vacation from our vacation. We spent4.5 days playing. The girls really enjoyed being with their cousins.


The first day there, we went out on the boat. Brent worked hard to earn the title of funnest driver, trying to bounce the tubers off of their tube. The girls enjoyed the day at the beach and had fun riding in the boat.



The girls liked the boat, but Taryn wasn't so sure at first.




The girls really liked lunch on the boats. Perhaps is was the bottomless bag of Cheetos.



The girls had fun with their cousins.

Amy did a great job skiing. She got up right away and was across the wake in no time. She looked like a pro.





The girls with their Aunt Carolyn while Amy was getting back in the boat.



On Thursday, a large group of people climbed Mt. Timpanogos. Many of the adults (including Brent) wished they hadn't gone skiing the day before.


See Brent's 2007 Hikes Blog for more pictures of the hike.



The day after Timp, we went back to the lake for more boating. All of the adults were too tired to try skiing and Brent spent more time on the beach relaxing. Cami really enjoyed flying a kite with her dad.


On Saturday, we got a great tour of the Heber Valley camp with Papa as guide. It looks like a great place for the girls. We then headed off to Thanksgiving point where the girls had fun.

Taryn enjoyed playing in the water and sand.


The girls always enjoy posing with the dinosaurs.


After lunch at Fazolies, we went swimming at the Lehi community pool. What a great place. Everyone had a load of fun and Brent (or should I say Brent's muscles) really enjoyed the hot tub.

After swimming, we headed to the Millers for a backyard picnic and the girls had fun playing on the swing set and jumping (for the first time) on a full size trampoline.

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Catching Up

Since it has been months and months since we have written, and months since we intended to update our blog, we are glad to now finally be writing. I don't know what we have been so busy doing...We have been hiking some but lately it is way too hot for that. If we go outside our faces melt off like the guy in Indiana Jones. The girls have had a blast swimming in the pool all summer. Cami is content to splash around but dare devil Taryn goes for the whole head submersion even though she has not mastered holding breath or closing her mouth. I have been refinishing chairs and repainting the picnic table. Brent has been busy working a lot.



The most important part of hiking with the girls is snack time. Mommy likes the M&M trail mix too.

My Daddy is sooo strong. He could kick your daddy's bum.


If you look closely you will notice Taryn's whole wet head and face and she is not at all unhappy about it.
Cami prefers the lighter side of swimming.


We went camping with the Weight family in April and despite the freezing weather it was really fun. It is great to live close enough to family that the girls can get to know and enjoy their cousins.


Hiking Emerald Pools at Zion National Park with the cousins.


I thought the older one was supposed to teach the younger one how to get into mischief. Not so.
Cami's happy tired face. The past month every week during family calendar time she asks if we can go camping this week.


We went to the county fair in May and Cami had a close run in with an escaped pig. Good thing she doesn't know ham comes from pigs or we would have a vegetarian 3 year old....She also had a run in with a mirror in the hall of mirrors...Poor kid. But she did have fun on the carousel several times. Taryn had fun just playing with her buddy Chase.


Cami loving life and Daddy getting a little sick.


Taryn and her buddy. They hug and then they usually tackle each other.


Cami got her first real injury involving a cousin, a baseball bat, and lots of tears on every one's part. When in question, a metal bat will always beat a 3 year old's skin...She was incredibly brave about the stitches. She even fell asleep during the stitching which is remarkable since we could in fact see her skull through her gash. At first the doctor's wanted to sedate her but some good numbing gel, Curious George stories, and holding Daddy's hand was all she really needed.



She also got her first "real" hair cut in March. For the past year I have been trimming her hair every couple months to get it to grow thicker/more even. Well let's just say it is not a good idea to try this at bedtime when mommy and Cami are a little grouchy...then expect dad to be able to fix it after a half an hour of "trimming." So she ended up with a very cute chin length bob after a trip to the hair salon. She felt better after it was fixed and got used to it.

"I don't want to look like a boy mommy!" (In response to hearing hold still or you'll end up looking like a boy-a little too close for comfort:) )

Cami is into counting and numbers. She can count to about 30 but gets a little messed up with the teens...She recognized letters and their sounds and can spell her own name. She is constantly playing dress ups and pretending. She went with us to see Cinderella as a play and has been dancing around ever since. I'm kind of worried she'll want to take ballet lessons now.

Both Girls really got into Easter this year. Cami is getting old enough to ask when the next holiday is and anticipates it. Taryn is old enough to eat the candy...


Easter at Grandma's with the cousins. (Melissa, Taryn, Camilla, Marceli, and Luke) Thanks to Madison, Melissa, and Uncle Glen they got to find eggs all morning (over and over again).

Taryn has learned some new tricks like self induced vomiting but only in Wal-mart. I had to take her shirt off the mop of the groceries so I could hand them to the check out girl. Actually mommy gagged her to barfing the other day too after she downed some medicines from the bathroom cabinet. She is fast and yes she is fine...She also has managed to get the royal blue toenail polish and bright pink with sparkles toenail polish out of the same cabinet. Yes she got them both open and the damage was done....The down side of renting is not being able to drill holes for child proof locks. Good thing she has an angelic face to minimize the pain of the clean up.



She also has mastered how to get naked quick as a flash. She repeats this during nap times especially, but it unnerves her to wake up naked and peeing in her crib. Even though Taryn is still tiny she packs a some serious energy and coordination for her size. She did finally hit a milestone of 20#'s this week now that she is almost two.

It is probably safe to attribute a large portion of the 20#s to chocolate pudding, yogurt covered raisins, and broccoli.

This is what we do to burn off the pudding. It is really hard to ride a bike across rocks so she takes the push it around the yard route.


She is finally getting "enough" hair for two ponys. Yes we use the term "enough" very loosely in this house.

Taryn has also discovered babies lately. Another one of her favorite tricks is taking the panties/bloomers off her baby dolls and trying them on herself. To me this says potty training time!

She is talking more but most of the time we have no clue what she is saying. She can say "backpack, backpack" so she is officially a Dora the Explorer and Diego fan now. She is very into books and reading lately-especially if they are Dora or Diego books. She likes to stand at the book case and hum until she finds just the right one.

She loves animals too, particularly the neighbors dog Russel and the goldfish at the library. It has been fun the last few months to really get to know her quirky happy go lucky self now that she actually is fun and happy go lucky...

And that is pretty much what we have been up to the last several months. We hope you all are happy and healthy. We'd love updates and pictures from all of you!

Sunday, March 04, 2007

Is it really only February

I have a goal this summer to hike 200 miles. The weather in Las Vegas has been very helpful with getting an early start.

We have already hiked about 15 miles on 5 different hikes. I am keeping a record, along with descriptions and pictures on another blog. You can link to it here or look for the link in the side bar.

I am excited about this goal, but I have to admit having kids slows you down. You have to either hike at their pace or carry an extra 30 pounds on your back.

The success of this goal will depend on whether or not Cami gains a lot of weight this summer or my back gives out!

If anyone is interested in tagging along, just let us know.